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created_time: 2026-02-18T14:13:00.000Z
title: 02-17 Family Debrief: Worship, ADHD Dynamics, and De-escalation Strategies
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Speaker 1 00:00:35
Bless the Lord O my soul, O my soul. Worship His holy name. Sing like never before, O my soul I'll worship Your name.
Speaker 2 00:01:15
Comes up,
Speaker 1 00:01:16
It's a new day dawning. It's time to sing your song again. Whatever may pass and whatever lies before me. Let me be singing when the evening comes.
Speaker 1 00:01:47
Oh, my soul. Worship His Holy. 
Speaker 2 00:01:53
Name. Sing. 
Speaker 1 00:01:56
Like never before. Oh, my soul. I'll worship Your. 
Speaker 2 00:02:19
You're rich in love. 
Speaker 1 00:02:22
And just so true. Your name is great and your heart is kind. For all your goodness I will keep on singing.
Speaker 1 00:04:14
And on that day when my strength is failing, the end draws near and my time has come. Still my soul will sing your praise unending. Ten. 
Speaker 2 00:04:38
Thousand years. 
Speaker 2 00:04:55
I worship your holy name. It seems like never before. Oh my soul, I worship your holy name. Your holy name, I bless the Lord.
Speaker 1 00:06:26
The story of unseen things above, of Jesus and His glory, of Jesus and His love. I love to tell the story because I know it is true. It satisfies my longings as nothing else can do.
Speaker 1 00:06:55
To tell the story,'Twill be my theme in glory To tell the old,
Speaker 2 00:07:04
Old story Of Jesus and His love. I love to tell the story, More wonderful it seems Than. 
Speaker 1 00:07:23
All the gold, And see of all the golden rings, I love to tell the story. It did so much for me, and that is just the reason I tell it now to thee. I love to. 
Speaker 3 00:07:46
Tell the story. Twill be my theme in glory to tell. The old,
Speaker 1 00:07:54
Old story of. 
Speaker 2 00:07:56
Jesus and His love. I love to tell the story,'tis pleasant to repeat what seems each. 
Speaker 1 00:08:14
Time I tell it more wonderfully sweet. I love to tell. 
Speaker 2 00:08:22
The story for some have never heard. The message of salvation from God's own holy word. I love to tell the story, twill be my theme in glory, to tell the old old story of Jesus and His love.
Speaker 2 00:08:56
I love to tell the story, For those who know it best Seem hungering and thirsting To hear. 
Speaker 1 00:09:08
It like the rest. And when in scenes of glory I sing the new, new song'Twill be the old, old story That I have loved so long.
Speaker 2 00:09:26
I love to tell the story,'twill be my theme in glory, To tell the old old story. 
Speaker 1 00:09:37
Of Jesus and His love. I love to tell the story,'twill be my theme in glory, To tell the old old story of. 
Speaker 2 00:09:53
Jesus and His love.
Speaker 2 00:10:17
Come to Jesus, all you who are weary.
Speaker 1 00:10:22
Come to the mercy seat, fervently kneel. Here bring your wounded hearts, broken and needy. Come. 
Speaker 2 00:10:34
Unto Jesus, I need you here. Joy of the comfortless. The stream. 
Speaker 1 00:10:49
Over the desert, He's in a strife. He speaks the comfort and tenderly sings," I. 
Speaker 2 00:11:00
Will give thee ease, a burden is light." Come unto Jesus. Come unto Jesus.
Speaker 2 00:11:37
Broken for sinners, drink from the cup of His promise made sure. Feast at His table as sons and as daughters, grace overflowing is yours evermore. Come unto Jesus! Come unto Jesus!
Speaker 1 00:12:28
This life worth saving. All that was gained, count as nothing but loss. And trade all this world for His kingdom. 
Speaker 2 00:12:40
On faith. Come unto Jesus, take up your cross. Come unto Jesus, take.
Speaker 1 00:14:23
Made The heavens made my heart and soul. Before I drew a breath, I was loved and known. I am His creation, the Maker's masterpiece. And all that He designs will. 
Speaker 2 00:14:44
Be done in me. My body is a. 
Speaker 1 00:14:55
Living God, I'll worship in this house that His blood has bought. As I bear. 
Speaker 2 00:15:04
His image, oh may I not profane the holiness I hold in this earthly frame.
Speaker 1 00:15:55
Is his love alone?
Speaker 2 00:15:59
He declares my standing, and he declares my state. So I will know myself by. 
Speaker 2 00:17:09
Is free, O Maker, come and make what you will.
Speaker 2 00:18:22
To the Lord, I am not my own. I belong to.
Speaker 1 00:18:59
Tell me what a friend we have in Jesus. 
Speaker 1 00:19:28
A peace we often forfeit. Oh, what needless pain we bring. All because we do not carry everything. 
Speaker 2 00:19:48
To God in prayer.
Speaker 2 00:20:05
Tell me have. 
Speaker 1 00:20:06
We trials and temptations?
Speaker 2 00:20:12
Is there trouble anywhere? We should never be. 
Speaker 1 00:20:21
Discouraged. Come on and take it to the Lord in prayer. Can we find no, Friends so faithful who will. 
Speaker 2 00:20:40
All us our share. Cause Jesus knows our every need. Come and take it to the Lord.
Speaker 1 00:21:12
We Weak and heavy laden come, burdened with a load of care. Precious Savior still our refuge; take it to the Lord in prayer. Do thy friends despise, forsake?
Speaker 2 00:21:45
Take It to the Lord in prayer. Pouring His arms, you'll take your share.
Speaker 1 00:22:56
A friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and griefs to bear. What a privilege to carry everything. 
Speaker 2 00:23:17
To God in prayer.
Speaker 2 00:37:50
Yeah.
Speaker 2 00:40:09
No.
Speaker 2 00:41:52
Okay.
Speaker 2 00:46:59
I hear. 
Speaker 1 00:47:00
The savior say," Thy strength indeed is small. Child of weakness, watch and pray, find in me thine all in all." Jesus paid it all. All to him I owe. Say, And had left a crimson stain. He washed it whiter.
Speaker 1 00:48:00
The heart of stone. Jesus paid it all. All to Him I owe. Sin had left a crimson stain He washed it. 
Speaker 2 00:48:20
White as snow.
Speaker 1 00:48:34
I stand in Him complete, Jesus died my soul to save. My lips shall still repeat, Jesus paid it all. All to Him I owe. Sin. 
Speaker 2 00:49:00
Had left a. 
Speaker 1 00:49:02
Crimson stain He. 
Speaker 1 00:52:10
Oh, Praise the one who paid my debt and raised this life up from the dead. Oh, Praise the one who paid my debt and raised this life up from the dead.
Speaker 2 00:52:42
How sweet the name of Jesus sounds in a believer's ear! It soothes his sorrows, heals his wounds, and drives away fears. It makes the wounded spirit whole and calms the troubled.
Speaker 2 00:53:13
Tis manna to the hungry soul, and to the weary heart.
Speaker 2 00:53:45
Which I build my shield and hiding place, my never failing treasury filled with boundless stores of grace. Jesus, my Shepherd, Brother, Friend, my Prophet, Priest. 
Speaker 2 00:54:16
My way, my end. Accept the praise I bring. Of my heart and cold my warmest thought. But when I see Thee as Thou art, I'll praise Thee as I ought. Till then, I would Thy love proclaim with every fleeting breath. And. 
Speaker 2 00:55:14
The music of Thy name, refresh my soul in death.
Speaker 2 00:55:53
Light of eternal. 
Speaker 2 00:56:25
Ancient of days, glorious holiness, worthy of praise. Wonderful counselor, son of the.
Speaker 2 00:56:54
Glory and majesty, bow and honor. Endless our praises, like waves on the shore.
Speaker 2 00:57:35
In mercy, your grace we adore. God of this moment and God.
Speaker 2 00:58:06
Angels that worship you, They sing and proclaim that you are the holy one, and great is your name. Song of the. 
Speaker 2 00:58:44
Yeah, you are mine. And I am so amazed. Like waves on the storm, resounding worship. Oh God!
Speaker 2 00:59:23
We adore you, God. This moment, and God will never let us go. Your God.
Speaker 2 00:59:53
This moment.
Speaker 2 01:01:21
Thank you.
Speaker 1 01:01:50
Christ alone, my hope is found. He is my light, my strength, my song. This cornerstone, this solid ground, firm through the fiercest drought and storm. What heights of love! What depths of peace! When fears are stilled, when striving cease.
Speaker 1 01:02:21
My comforter, my all in all. Here in the love of Christ I stand.
Speaker 1 01:02:40
In Christ alone, who took on flesh, fullness of God in helpless babe. This gift. 
Speaker 1 01:02:53
Righteousness scorned by the ones he came to save. Till on that cross as Jesus died, the wrath of God. 
Speaker 1 01:03:31
His body lay, light of the world by darkness slain. Then bursting forth in glorious day, up from the grave he rose again. And as he stands in victory, sins curse have gone.
Speaker 1 01:04:03
He is mine, bought with the precious blood. 
Speaker 2 01:04:09
Of Christ.
Speaker 2 01:04:45
Jesus commands my destiny. No power of hell, no scheme of man can ever let me fall. Many times He has saved me.
Speaker 2 01:06:26
Music. 
Speaker 1 01:07:09
In the presence of Jesus, the Nazarene, and wonder how He could love me, a sinner condemned.
Speaker 1 01:07:44
Be how marvelous, how wonderful is my Savior's love for me.
Speaker 1 01:08:18
Not my will, but Thine. He had no tears for His own. But the red drops of blood from His side, how marvelous! How marvelous! How wonderful. 
Speaker 2 01:08:43
And my song.
Speaker 2 01:08:53
How wonderful is my Savior's love for me. He. 
Speaker 1 01:09:14
Took my sins and my sorrows.
Speaker 1 01:09:21
He, them, his.
Speaker 2 01:10:59
My joy through the ages to sing of his love for me.
Speaker 2 01:17:49
My stay from every trial, see that strong protecting mighty arm where mercy bids me lean. If waves should drift me far away, yet still my faith will be. And still I'm good though dark be our my soul shall trust in Thee. My soul shall trust in Thee.
Speaker 1 01:18:31
T Hou from the deep has heard my call and bending from on high, did. 
Speaker 2 01:18:38
Paint the sin that I have done in glory on the sky. I wonder what a hand but thine, my wayward path to guide. Since thou like me has suffered here.
Speaker 2 01:19:06
Was grace that covered every stain and sought each sinner found. So in this refuge, I. 
Speaker 2 01:19:39
Be found at last among the saints to dwell. My greatest joy in heaven may be, Thy precious love to tell. I will tell. My soul shall trust in Thee. Yes, my soul shall trust in Thee. My anthem shall forever be, My soul shall trust in Thee.
Speaker 2 01:20:39
No, with the great healing.
Speaker 2 01:21:11
Savior, waiting the coming day, Jesus my Lord. Pray me they watch his bed, Jesus my Savior.
Speaker 2 01:21:40
Amen.
Speaker 2 01:22:13
Thank you.
Speaker 2 01:24:06
You're my only hope away. For the power of your gospel shines within this jar of clay. In affliction, you bring wisdom that my comforts can't replace. How my truest, greatest strength. 
Speaker 2 01:24:54
With me.
Speaker 2 01:26:31
Oh, before us,
Speaker 1 01:26:33
That I know is soon to break. As I wait upon your mercy, which. 
Speaker 1 01:27:59
Praise the God of every grace. Oh, praise the God of. 
Speaker 2 01:28:07
Every grace.
Speaker 2 01:29:16
Whose gracious protection I share, who leads me beside the still waters and tenderly comforts me there. Sometimes in the shadows I view Him, He sings over me in the night. It falls like a blanket of mercy.
Speaker 2 01:30:20
Forgive them, and grace was extended to me. I sing.
Speaker 2 01:31:13
The shadow of death in my way, and even as this life is ending, let these be.
Speaker 2 01:33:09
What love is this that Christ. 
Speaker 1 01:33:12
Would die for me? His goodness is merit, his righteousness, the sinner's only plea.
Speaker 2 01:35:39
In weakness. 
Speaker 1 01:35:40
To live is Christ, and plenty of wants.
Speaker 2 01:35:46
And I may know.
Speaker 1 01:37:26
Singing hallelujah. Hallelujah. Hallelujah in the name of the Lord. Singing hallelujah.
Speaker 1 01:39:20
Wasn't. 
Speaker 1 01:52:02
Shape and fashion us in your.
Speaker 2 01:57:25
Hold me up, my strength is failing. In the way, it's dark.
Speaker 2 01:58:41
Me, oh, loving Savior.
Speaker 2 02:00:32
Of me.
Speaker 1 02:02:14
My soul with tranquil eyes, behold a friend in Jesus. Be not afraid when storms are nigh, but cast thy care on Jesus. His. 
Speaker 2 02:03:40
And.
Speaker 1 02:06:29
And sings my soul, my Savior God to Thee. How great Thou art. How great Thou art. Then sings my soul, my Savior God to Thee. How great Thou art.
Speaker 1 02:09:04
And sings my soul, my Savior God to Thee, how great Thou art. How great Thou art. And sings my soul, my Savior God to Thee, how great Thou art.
Speaker 2 02:17:03
When this life of trials tests my faith, I set my hope on Jesus. When the questions come and doubts remain, I set my hope on Jesus.
Speaker 2 02:19:56
Okay.
Speaker 2 02:21:09
The isles of the deep shall praise him. The ends of the earth shall see. The wonders of his salvation and gather to him shall be. The isles of the deep shall praise him. The valley. 
Speaker 4 02:21:38
Good morning. Good morning. So, I've got a riddle. Kind of. What, how do you make Matthew the angriest he's ever been in his life? I don't know. You close the trunk on him accidentally and then laugh, which I did.
Speaker 4 02:22:10
I think. Oh no! I looked up, The truck was open and I didn't see him because he was bending over and pushing in. He was pushing in like he had his backpack still on, but those chairs are still in the back. So he was pushing in those chairs. And then I look up as the thing is closing and I see his head pop up and I'm like, oh, no, Matty, Matty! And he can't hear me so then trying to stop it and it won't. And then he's like, so bad. What the heck? Like I was like, oh my gosh. I'm like Maddie, I'm so sorry. I am so sorry. I didn't mean it And. He was like And that he like had a blanket wrapped around him, and he like opens the door and like the heaves it into the house.
Speaker 4 02:23:09
And then as he's doing that, I was like, Eric, Ben, do not say a word. The best thing we could do is just be quiet. And so he got in the car and I was like, Yeah, you should go. No no no go ahead. Oh, okay. So he got in the car and I was just like Matt. I am so sorry, and he was confused like He's, like You know one of those typical Like. Why would you do that to me? Like you did it on purpose And I'm like I didn't do it.
Speaker 4 02:23:39
He's like, but you did and you laughed. And I'm like, I'm so sorry. I'm not laughing now. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 02:23:47
And I'm sure you're saying it like that too, with a laughing like trying so hard not to laugh right now.
Speaker 4 02:23:54
So hard not to. Like, I am so sorry for you. Like, I am so sorry. I am so sorry. I'm laughing if i am. It's not at you. It's because i can't believe i did that. And i was trying to stop it, but then you got the more i talked about it, the more mad. And he got, and I was like, so I was just quiet. So I just left him alone. Yeah. You know, Until the boys got out of the car, and I tried to pick up that stupid basket that the girls that the girls said they would they made so Maddie's late to school because I was like, okay, if I'm gonna be late today, I'm gonna be late. I'm gonna go, I'm gonna go like, i'm gonna go take Maddie to school late. And i am going to go late, and i'll just pick it up from the front. If that's the way they want to do it. Um is it there? No?
Speaker 4 02:24:37
And now I just got an email saying that they're so sorry, they were a little late to school today, and I'm like okay. So, I'm picking up the boys after school. So. Oh really? Well because.
Speaker 3 02:24:51
Oh that's right yeah yeah yeah yeah we need to do that, um. But,
Speaker 4 02:24:57
If you are, if you get done or whatever and you're you're able to go, I just need you to go to the front office and go pick it up.
Speaker 3 02:25:05
Let's hope I'm not, Um. So, I am not going to make this right, okay? Um, please don't hear me saying that. And this is not about me.
Speaker 4 02:25:25
I already apologized to Matthew and I said I am so sorry, and i said, and I shouldn't be laughing and I understand why that would why it's not funny.
Speaker 3 02:25:35
You don't, You know the ultimate joke is when you have this issue where you would happily rain hellfire and brimstone down on anybody who might laugh at you, and then. 
Speaker 3 02:26:04
God puts you with a woman who laughs when she gets nervous. And tells you, I don't know, man, figure it out. No, no no, no Ash Ash, but here's here's the thing though.
Speaker 4 02:26:34
I'm laughing at myself and the irony of the situation that I just did that to my kid.
Speaker 3 02:26:40
But here's but here's the thing. It is it is this I and I'm speaking for Matthew here as if it's me because I can I totally get it. Because at in that moment, in that moment, I am incapable of of hearing and understanding your logic. All I know is you just laughed at me and you must die. Until I until I can calm down and process, I can't.
Speaker 4 02:27:17
Right, no, I know.
Speaker 3 02:27:19
And Maddie's the same.
Speaker 4 02:27:20
That's kind of what I realized. That's kind of what I realized like even after he was calm, I was like Maddie," I am so sorry." Like," I wasn't trying to laugh at you," and he still like was like, don't bring it up right now, one hundred percent. I thought of you and how like you, you know, Like and like just even our, like you going to bed and like thinking that I was laughing at you, you know or whatever. And uh. You know. Oh, I know. So I was like thinking about that and I'm. Like uh, that's why I told the boys boys do not laugh, do not make fun of them for this. Don't say anything best thing to do is just be quiet and just act as if it didn't happen.
Speaker 4 02:28:04
Not give him a hard time. You know. Right. See,
Speaker 3 02:28:16
And this is this is why you're a terrible mother.
Speaker 4 02:28:19
I know, I know, I know It's like it's like dropping your baby like it's like not funny. It's like ironic funny. Like. Dropping your baby intentionally not funny. Dropping your baby and like, you know, like, you know. And then laughing about it eight years afterwards because those were crazy times. You know that's what that's the kind of funny. You know like if we all survived, that's so that's the laugh that I'm giving. Yeah. 
Speaker 3 02:29:03
Maddie's gonna remember this.
Speaker 4 02:29:05
I know, I know. He's a grudge holder. He's a little grudge holder. It's the dopamine that you guys like. Like when he was listening to something and it was like.
Speaker 3 02:29:22
It's the dopamine to hold on to the grudge, it's not the dopamine to create it though.
Speaker 4 02:29:26
No, it's the dopamine to hold on to it. It's like for sure there is a thrill that is.
Speaker 4 02:29:33
Do you ever, Have you ever started a conversation with somebody who has A D H D where you think you are just going to have a conversation? And all of a sudden? It turns into a debate. It's like somebody with A D H D like because their brain is seeking out dopamine, It's like anything that like they're like their brain because it's looking for dopamine is like charged up and ready to go. So a conversation there is something but there is a conversation. It suddenly will turn into a debate. Is seeking that out, you know, because it likes like because it it likes the charge. I was like, It reminded me of the conversation that you and I were having about like Maddie doing Obama. Like, because I'm like, I this is not a debate. I'm just saying I feel uncomfortable. Like cause I feel like I'm doing something wrong against you because you keep on saying this. So like do you want me to switch? And we're like here we are debating this. 
Speaker 4 02:30:32
I'm not trying to debate you on it. I just like, I feel like morally torn because it feels like I'm deciding between you. And what you're saying about this guy and like doing this project. And I'm, I'm trying to ask you what what you want me to do. Not not argue with you, but like how how is that how is this an argument? And then it turned into one. You know. Anyways, and I look, I yeah, I don't want to rehash that conversation. Please don't make me rehash that conversation, but like.
Speaker 4 02:31:04
I get like I get like how it could, how you might see it, You know, as an argument that I definitely wasn't trying to have an argument with you about it. And I wasn't trying to call you out or anything like that. You know, I just wanted to respect you and your opinion. And I didn't want to feel like I was going against your your thought process about the take that you wanted to have, You know. Right.
Speaker 4 02:31:38
I feel like I had other stuff to tell you about. That's alright.
Speaker 3 02:31:42
I gotta go uh in, anyways so.
Speaker 4 02:31:47
What time you think you're gonna try to be home at?
Speaker 3 02:31:49
I'm gonna try to be home, well like one one thirty. So what's that?
Speaker 3 02:32:03
So, I mean that's all I really got so, I gotta but I gotta run too. In order to do that.
Speaker 4 02:32:09
Alright, well, I love you and I'll talk to you later. If there's anything I can do for you, let me know.
Speaker 2 02:32:14
You got it, babe. Alright, bye- bye.
Speaker 2 02:32:53
Okay.
Speaker 2 02:33:40
I'm not going to be able to do this.
Speaker 2 02:38:31
I'm not sure what you're saying.
Speaker 3 02:40:07
How are you? Oh, I'm good. How are you? Doing well. Roman, right? I have a folio here. You did? Feeling good today. Careful. What happens when you get old? Hell man! Roman, right? Yes sir, uh-huh. Remind me. Braden Braden Um. what brings you around here today? You got to check the pool. Okay, Make sure. Everything's good Start walking in No. No, no Check make sure if they're out there and we just sit here and they travel Yeah So. This is where it is.
Speaker 3 02:40:47
I Don't think I've met you. I'm Braden. Try and pull. I think we have. Yeah, I think you and I know, I think we might have talked. Yeah, um, I'm not sure you might have met Corey. You made Corey? Yeah, taller? Yeah, and uh.
Speaker 3 02:41:06
It's been a while, but uh, I heard the name. I was like, "I know somebody." I just want to introduce myself. Yeah. So um, everything's good. Everything's good. I just uh just here to make sure everything's good. I love that. You guys are the one guys we don't have to worry about because nothing ever goes wrong. And when it does, you guys are on it That's, that's what we kind of try to stake our name on yeah. So, we love it. Cool. Um, is there anywhere that uh. No, we got four. Yeah, okay. Do it. We got next door also? Or you don't do that one? No, we did next door already. So. That one's good too? And then that one's kind of like a flip of the coin sometimes. Now now is the time to get stuff. So should I do that one first or whatever I can. Whichever you want? Whichever you want Literally whatever you want Fair enough Well then I'll look at that It's not gonna be from uh like.
Speaker 3 02:42:06
We'll leave this cracked open for you. Cool, thank you. No worries. You know how to get there? Yeah, right over here. I'm just like tonight walking, chew gum at the same time. Same goes? Over what? Yeah, Uh 1879 town town 1 94 1. Oh, okay, I got it in our little uh hat, but you know.
Speaker 2 02:42:37
There we go.
Speaker 2 02:46:39
I'm not sure what you're saying.

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