record_id: 2cff8b3e-f83d-814d-9f8d-d58f523ab8f9
created_time: 2025-12-20T17:32:00.000Z
title: 12-18 Soccer Debrief: On-field Altercation and Player Performance
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Speaker 1 00:00:40
Oh my God.
Speaker 2 00:02:08
You've got a guy off to the side here where the blue team has it, right? There's another blue team.
Speaker 3 00:02:17
This place is going to go to hell. Thank you.
Speaker 3 00:03:36
I know it's difficult to read, but that bad touch, once he turns, it goes in the mess.
Speaker 1 00:03:54
He starts looking at it.
Speaker 4 00:04:16
I feel like I'm at 70.
Speaker 3 00:04:48
Can you see this or not? You're gonna go get it. You went all over the pool.
Speaker 1 00:05:22
What's the back? I think I have it. Yeah, I'll let one of the young kids go jump with me. Here it's bad. There's a lot of them I like.
Speaker 1 00:06:04
One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight. Woo! Three, two, three, four.
Speaker 4 00:06:39
Feel free, yeah.
Speaker 5 00:07:15
30 seconds, no, we stay in, it's a tie.
Speaker 6 00:07:25
Just hold the ball, just hold the ball, tie, tie.
Speaker 1 00:07:47
Let's go!
Speaker 1 00:08:48
Thank you.
Speaker 1 00:09:49
Hey, how are you, Chico? This is okay. Let's go, James.
Speaker 1 00:11:49
Whoa, jeez. 
Speaker 2 00:12:34
Step into the void.
Speaker 1 00:12:40
Get in front of him.
Speaker 1 00:13:12
Oh.
Speaker 1 00:14:34
Okay.
Speaker 1 00:15:24
I'm busy. Eat it right here, eat it right here, eat it right here.
Speaker 1 00:16:42
Into the space. You're just gonna dribble. We're winning by one. I just tried to do something wrong.
Speaker 1 00:17:23
Alright. Oh my god.
Speaker 3 00:17:54
Hi.
Speaker 1 00:18:46
Overlap.
Speaker 1 00:19:45
Hit it, hit it.
Speaker 1 00:20:57
Thank you.
Speaker 5 00:21:50
We'll take the pennies. All right, guys. Anything going on there? Next week, Saturday is at 8 in the morning, Sunday is at 12. I'll send out the input to Eric. Okay. We're in Hawaiian Gardens on Saturday, and then Bellflower on Sunday. Okay.
Speaker 5 00:22:21
When can we send that out? 12. Okay. I'll send the input to Eric. Okay, then I'll send it out. I haven't met you. I'm very used to it. Did I switch on today? Nice to meet you. All right. Well, I'm glad we were able to get these guys going when the other guys are in high school. Yeah, no, I... We'll figure it out. But, yeah. So, yeah, I mean, we didn't want to stop because those guys are going to come back home. I know. And these guys are going to be like...
Speaker 5 00:22:52
So, we just kept going. We were able to find the league. It's okay. Last week, they gave us a rough field. this past weekend, but hopefully, I think this weekend's our, both of the fields are turf, we should be fine. As far as the quality, it's like, as a Sunday, Sunday league kind of field, but it's okay. Okay, thank you guys. Thank you.
Speaker 5 00:23:23
Sweater, boys.
Speaker 2 00:24:08
The only thing I didn't like is what I told you to say. Just a second, I didn't get to know.
Speaker 1 00:24:14
But I didn't mean to.
Speaker 3 00:24:44
There's two problems here.
Speaker 2 00:24:58
You're not trying to hear what I have to say. And you were so big, right? So, I would suggest that you start with trying to hear what I have to say so that I am interested in what you have to say.
Speaker 2 00:25:33
And I think I brought it up really nicely, right? I didn't say like, hey man, what the heck, you didn't listen to me, right? I didn't say I was pissed, I didn't say... I nicely brought up something, right? I nicely brought up an issue that I had, so...
Speaker 2 00:26:15
See I have to make a decision now because you're forcing me into a situation where you know what you're essentially telling me right now is that I don't have to listen to you if I think I have a good reason. Effectively right? And so I understand you're pissed off and especially in the heat of the moment. Been there done that. But I have to you know get a handle on it on some level and.
Speaker 2 00:27:14
I'd rather get a handle on it by you and I talking it out, don't you. 
Speaker 1 00:27:42
Can I say this? I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 00:27:58
I was looking for an answer. I'm sorry. I know, but like, can I say this? I'm sorry that I didn't invade you. Like, I should have done what you told me. But I'm not sorry that I didn't apologize, that I didn't check on him. Like, I should have done what you asked me to, but I don't feel bad in the sense that I didn't ask you.
Speaker 4 00:28:32
Tell me what happened. I'm, like, dribbling the ball. Like, what happened in the thing? I'm, like, dribbling the ball. I turn it, and this kid just, like, slams into the back of me. And, like, he didn't even touch the ball. And then I, like, trip forward, and he just, like, pummels me into the wall.
Speaker 4 00:29:04
And, like, we play for the ball, and he ends up, like, hitting me into the wall again. And I'm, like... just swinging his arms and like catching me like into like the my lip with his elbow and then he like hits me into the wall again and like done so i just hit him what i saw i'm gonna say this.
Speaker 2 00:29:40
i didn't see him hit you in the face and i didn't see him throwing you into the wall but i saw him, you know shove you like that i saw all that. and and then i saw i didn't see him hit you from behind but i saw you hit him from behind.
Speaker 2 00:30:10
And just totally take him out, right? Did you hear what everybody else said after that? I don't remember his name, but they're like, whoa, man, you're going to let him do that to you? Whoa, whoa. I mean, everybody was just like, one thing was sure that everybody thought what you did was, you know, too hard, over the line.
Speaker 2 00:30:42
Now, interestingly enough, that kid, I mean, that kid was limping for the next several minutes, 10 minutes. I thought it odd that he didn't do anything. Lends more credence to your story. aligns better with yours more weight, but I didn't believe you.
Speaker 2 00:31:18
If you came at him just totally unjustified he should have fought back harder.
Speaker 1 00:31:37
You know the kid though. So, okay. How did you so after that happened? Let's just say you're my representative my son.
Speaker 1 00:32:13
And then when I told you, is he okay? I'll tell you why I'm asking this question.
Speaker 2 00:34:20
So loving God with all your heart, soul, and mind is really going, everything that I'm about is God. And hopefully I can keep that while serving.
Speaker 2 00:34:55
We treat others the way that we want to be treated because they are his. When we love them, especially when they don't know him, we show him. Does that make sense? Okay. What you did to me tonight is exactly what we do to God always.
Speaker 2 00:35:37
Did you notice? Have I called you out yet for hitting your guy? No, I didn't have a problem with that at all. It needed to be done. I wish you would have hit him from the front and not the back, but here we are. So... It's your turn.
Speaker 2 00:36:09
Yeah, I know. Don't you find it odd that I'm not calling you out for that? So why would I... Is it odd to you that I'm not calling you out for that. 
Speaker 4 00:36:40
Yes and no. Because, like, you actually had to be done.
Speaker 1 00:37:07
If you didn't, you didn't expect it.
Speaker 2 00:37:18
Then you did exactly what you expected me to show you. You had an opportunity to say... That's just part of the game, but we can still be friends. I care about you, right? And not in the way like, oh can we be friends? Right? But like, they work for us as part of the game. That's what he says.
Speaker 2 00:37:59
And I tried to help you, because that's my job. That's what he does with me, since I don't really have a dad in the same way that you do. I'm already out. In situations like that, what I ask is, you know,
Speaker 2 00:38:39
you want to turn around and go did you see what happened that would have been fine too put your stuff in my i'm not trying to i'm just like.
Speaker 2 00:39:40
I wasn't mad at all. I was just like, the ball's on this kid. I don't think he's ever stepped over the line this far. I want, I personally want to really point you in that one.
Speaker 2 00:40:36
Cough. I don't know what I'm asking, does it mean goddess? You want to hear something?
Speaker 2 00:41:16
You have a story after? God asked Abraham to sacrifice. You know why. 
Speaker 4 00:41:41
Yeah.
Speaker 2 00:41:44
give me your dreams cool we're good right you hear the story of the rich sometimes it's called rich young rulers and that was rich young person king jesus they said what am i lacking you like one thing sell everything you have and follow me you heard that one and the guy went away sorry.
Speaker 2 00:42:22
it says obviously they'd say give me your dreams it wasn't it had nothing to do with the money and say trust me you know. It's really tough.
Speaker 2 00:42:52
That's why right now my career is not going well, stuff like that. Sometimes it's hard on me. My greatest fear is my second job again.
Speaker 2 00:43:38
That's my point. I want to change how I've been thinking a lot about that. I'd like to get more questions.
Speaker 2 00:44:26
Hey, I was really impressed with you. You played confident. You didn't play scared. You know, even like when you lost the ball, it was just like you had a presence to you. Did you feel more confident today. 
Speaker 4 00:44:52
I felt more confident. I just felt like, I don't know, I felt like, I didn't feel like as in the play as I should have.
Speaker 2 00:45:03
Towards the end, you let yourself get out. There's definitely like a, if you figure out this two play, how to see everything two plays in advance, not just on defense but on offense, like there was a point, this is the field, right, where you passed it, like I think it was to Adam. I can't show you from here. So, you passed it to Adam, and he got stuck right here. The next play was you to make a run, and most of the time you don't see that.
Speaker 2 00:45:44
right and what I'm trying to get you to do is go so right now the way I think you do it is you're like I'm a defender so I stay as a defender right and I want you to like free yourself all of that even in the regular games if Adam gets stuck here right he's got to go this way or this way right so the natural move if there's a if there's a lane for you is to make that run right one of two things.
Speaker 2 00:46:19
is gonna happen when you make that run he's gonna pass it to you or this guy will fade this way and he can go that way right but that's the natural if you want the game to continue to progress this way the flow has to be right you have to create an opportunity to create the flow to create an opportunity for the ball to move forward, right sometimes you're stuck and you need to come back and you see the pros do it oh we're stuck.
Speaker 2 00:46:50
let's turn around play it back switch it go across right but if you can you can read what needs to happen next right it's what needs to happen next for us what needs to happen next for them right so when we're on defense what needs to happen next for them oh they need to get it to this guy i better cover that guy right um the only other thing i saw tonight was um there was a point where you were moving forward you're gonna get your your teammate was coming back and the ball.
Speaker 2 00:47:25
was in between the two of you and you do this more often than i like to see you like you have it because and he wants it but you're goal facing right you should have it right and it should never be it's always your ball always your ball so unless he calls it it's your ball, Right? But I really enjoyed watching you play.
Speaker 2 00:47:57
Part of me was kind of disappointed because I had some stuff I wanted to work on. No, I mean, like, that it started so quick. You know? But I'm so glad that I enjoyed all that.
Speaker 4 00:48:16
Apparently, they got there and there was just an open field, so they started a game. They got kicked off. Well, they planned it. Like, when you came, they switched over. I understand.
Speaker 3 00:49:11
to this side.
Speaker 2 00:51:11
Yeah, they must have won five games before they lost.
Speaker 6 00:51:22
I came home from the office. I don't know what that means, how you went about getting someone for an hour. How long were the games. 
Speaker 2 00:51:30
Oh, I don't know how long, but they were three teams, right? So they played for like a five-minute period, right? No, it was like, oh, hey, we've got 12 people, or what, 15 people, 5v5, right? Three teams, you guys sit out. You guys play for five minutes. Okay, you guys won, switch it out.
Speaker 1 00:51:60
Did you say you got a goal. 
Speaker 3 00:52:29
It goes into the game, baby. I got one in the game. Okay.
Speaker 2 00:52:41
What. 
Speaker 4 00:52:46
You want to take a shower? Tonight, this is from Uncle Shawnee.
Speaker 2 00:53:20
Tonight I was roughhousing with Augustine and I stopped and he jumped face forward into my forehead. When his mom asked what happened, he, screaming, pointed at me as if I did it to him. The betrayal.
Speaker 6 00:53:45
So I got you something that I think, who wants, that I think you'll like. Me? I'll be curious if I can do it. I just, yeah, that's bad for me.
Speaker 1 00:53:60
I, here, I'll show you. That's kind of shocking. Thank you.
Speaker 1 00:58:02
Who's the picker here?
Speaker 1 00:59:33
Thank you.
Speaker 1 01:00:06
Oh, God.
Speaker 1 01:01:36
Thank you.
Speaker 1 01:02:15
What's going on. 
Speaker 7 01:02:31
What? I don't know.
Speaker 8 01:02:59
It's really important.
Speaker 9 01:05:00
Thank you for that.
Speaker 8 01:08:02
You know.
Speaker 1 01:09:29
Thank you.
Speaker 7 01:12:40
Hmm? Seahawks. They just lost.
Speaker 3 01:13:16
Went to overtime. Do you want to log in though? No.
Speaker 10 01:14:06
What? What episode is this, Ben. 
Speaker 9 01:15:12
Boy.
Speaker 11 01:15:22
June has been a great day.
Speaker 2 01:16:47
Episode 14, right? Called Out of the Box. Is that season one?
Speaker 2 01:17:18
I agree with you.
Speaker 2 01:18:22
Yeah, that's what it was. Law and order. Once I saw this picture, her IMDb picture, I was like, oh yeah.
Speaker 1 01:19:43
Really well.
Speaker 9 01:21:06
I want one.
Speaker 10 01:21:42
Thank you.
Speaker 1 01:23:32
Uhhhhhhh.
Speaker 9 01:25:48
I'm talking to you.
Speaker 1 01:31:13
Why don't you fix it before you want it? Does that look like something?
Speaker 1 01:32:10
you need somebody else no i just got a whiff i got a whiff earlier.
Speaker 6 01:37:20
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 6 01:38:16
You can make it so, you can, the green thing, and you could actually, like, uh. 
Speaker 1 01:38:34
uh, like the balls in the, no way, yeah, yeah, still can, still can, you know. 
Speaker 3 01:39:25
Is it mine? I got one now. I was thinking that one could have given you that for free, so I said I was going to give you some money to have one.
Speaker 12 01:39:45
Do you even want to pay for it, kid? So what are you going to do for it. 
Speaker 1 01:39:52
I'm going to give it to you.
Speaker 6 01:40:17
Okay.
Speaker 1 01:40:20
Let's go to bed. Tomorrow.
Speaker 12 01:43:21
Hmm, what did you do. 
Speaker 1 01:43:31
What? You learned! Go to bed.
Speaker 2 01:43:47
We'll deal with that when you're... Look, you have to do the things that I asked you to do. So, you've got the clothes on.
Speaker 6 01:44:32
I want you out.
Speaker 6 01:45:46
No, I've done a lot.
Speaker 1 01:46:03
No, I'm just kidding. Hey, hey.
Speaker 3 01:46:06
You need to ask him, though.

[AI_SUMMARY]
A post-game debrief discussed an on-field altercation where a player retaliated after being slammed into a wall, raising concerns about sportsmanship. Key topics included the need for players to anticipate game plays, assertiveness in claiming the ball, and upcoming game logistics. Unresolved conflicts regarding the incident and the well-being of the injured player were highlighted, along with the necessity for a player development plan and clearer communication strategies.