record_id: 2fcf8b3e-f83d-8122-a5ca-eb0052f116cf
created_time: 2026-02-03T02:41:00.000Z
title: 02-02 Family Strategy Review: Logistics, Parenting Ethics, Digital Safety, Health, Sports Analytics, and IT Governance
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Speaker 1 00:00:11
Thank you, let me say thank you.
Speaker 2 00:00:27
Thank you, have a great day.
Speaker 3 00:00:47
This is how I'm going to go.
Speaker 4 00:01:20
Can I talk about. 
Speaker 1 00:02:06
Do you know that guy? How was your day going. 
Speaker 2 00:02:36
What for? I didn't like... It wasn't with me and Preston. Preston was home. Remember Arnold? The kid who I used to like... Every time I came back, I was like, I hope he pushes me sometimes so I can like...
Speaker 3 00:02:55
Yeah.
Speaker 2 00:02:58
Like, we basically like, we were friends kind of, but he was starting to get really annoying again. I wasn't doing anything, but so basically my mom, because he thought that, and then Arnold got mad, and I thought that it was simple.
Speaker 2 00:03:38
Did someone send him? Pushing Armand Preston, like, shoving him, so he didn't, like, he, like, stood up.
Speaker 2 00:04:30
Yeah. So I stopped pushing him, and I pushed him, and then I said, I'm warning you.
Speaker 3 00:04:46
Push, you're not pushing Preston yet? Armand. Okay. So Armand's not defending himself. Armand's, like. And you are now. You're defending Armand.
Speaker 2 00:04:59
Like, he doesn't want to fight him. Like, he would push back a little bit, but, like, he wouldn't, like, come at him. I said, what is he going to do? I said, it's not what I'm going to do, it's what I'm going to do. And then he went after Preston. Like, started pushing Preston.
Speaker 2 00:05:29
So, the Ironman guy started going after him. Arnav went after Preston. Was that the guy that you...
Speaker 3 00:05:41
So, better way to do that, though, can't let you pick him. So now it's not a threat. Because he stepped up to me. I know. But again, it's like, hey, I got no issues with you. I don't want to do this, but I can't let you do that.
Speaker 3 00:06:13
You can deflate it right away, right? I've done that before with somebody that's like, your friend's being an a-hole. And I said, I get that, but he's my a-hole and I can't let you do anything. My a-hole. Right. And so, you know, the guy's like, dude, you know? So, all right. I saw that the route passes right by the house, so I'm gonna drop you off at the house.
Speaker 3 00:06:46
But you guys have to be productive, okay? I want chores done. Okay, you can come with me. Huh? Do you have any sermons for me? So I can listen to them. We can work something like that out, but not today. Dude, you need to run. Do you need to run in a way where your arms go. 
Speaker 1 00:07:31
Hmm? What is Eric's. 
Speaker 3 00:07:43
I'm talking for future, not, like, future, future, not. What's that? Why is Eric's team coming? Are they really. 
Speaker 2 00:07:55
Jared's going to host his last practices today.
Speaker 1 00:08:00
Which is all the more reason.
Speaker 3 00:08:10
So. They won't school you, but get out.
Speaker 5 00:08:40
I've got another water bottle here if you want it.
Speaker 1 00:08:48
Do you want to come sit up here. 
Speaker 5 00:09:02
We'll bring him to you.
Speaker 3 00:09:10
Trying to throw you a little bit of a catch up.
Speaker 6 00:09:25
How did your day go? Did you go to the principal's office? One of them, they thought I said a bad word, but I didn't.
Speaker 3 00:09:53
It hurt me. Another time, it was because I got in a fight with a guy.
Speaker 6 00:10:11
So, no, we're bringing him back in.
Speaker 3 00:10:33
The good news is, 18 minutes last run. We should have beaten him the first time. Start stretching. Actually, that's not a bad idea.
Speaker 1 00:10:56
I'll go back to the back. Go.
Speaker 4 00:11:49
You can stretch it.
Speaker 6 00:11:58
You can stretch your hammies by touching your toes.
Speaker 1 00:11:60
I got caught up and then traffic was just. 
Speaker 3 00:12:34
because I got caught up, traffic was terrible. I was actually, I was leaving work early and then Cory's like, hey, we should do this. And I was like, crap, you know.
Speaker 7 00:12:52
Like or dislike? Like or dislike what? What's Toblerone? It's like a chocolate, like, search it up in your phone. Hey Siri, what's a Toblerone? Toblerone is a Swiss chocolate brand owned by Mandela's International. It was produced exclusively in Bern, Switzerland until 2022, when a smaller, limited part of the portfolio began production in Bratislava, Slovakia. That was from Wikipedia. Do you want me to keep reading? No.
Speaker 1 00:13:36
Oh, man.
Speaker 3 00:14:04
Oh, that's what I thought. It's never been my, like, I don't know that I dislike it, but it was just like, eh, whatever. Stretch everything. 
Speaker 4 00:14:18
Yeah. Liar. I don't know how to get my...
Speaker 3 00:14:25
What? So turn to the left a little bit. Pull your right ankle up to your butt.
Speaker 1 00:16:16
Did you stretch your pinky finger. 
Speaker 3 00:16:35
No. Well, I cracked it when I did it, but this is stretching it. I'm just messing with you.
Speaker 6 00:16:47
What are we having for dinner tonight. 
Speaker 4 00:16:55
Brats? I don't know. Why doesn't mom like us calling them. 
Speaker 3 00:17:05
Brat thrust? That's not what they're called. Bratwurst? Oh, no.
Speaker 6 00:17:13
Did she say she doesn't like calling them? Yeah, she just said don't. Maybe because you said bratthust.
Speaker 4 00:17:23
I said bratwurst, but this don't.
Speaker 6 00:17:29
How can you be sure? They did it this time.
Speaker 5 00:17:38
So how do you know that you didn't make a mistake last time? When you know, you know.
Speaker 4 00:17:59
Why do you like your seatbelt thing so down. 
Speaker 5 00:18:02
What do you mean? Fulmac's down all the way up. I don't do that. I don't know. Let me see. I don't know that it does anything for me.
Speaker 6 00:18:29
Maybe it's your mom. You ready to start running. 
Speaker 1 00:19:11
Bye. See ya.
Speaker 1 00:29:19
Thank you.
Speaker 3 00:30:32
why wasn't i smart enough to grab my laptop how are you did you get that oh okay i didn't want you to see me it was like crazy just walk right past me i saw you at the corner.
Speaker 1 00:32:51
Thank you.
Speaker 8 00:34:03
Benny, finally recovered. 
Speaker 3 00:34:08
Probably. Ben is like the slightest windblow, Ben's death, you know, that's death's door. You know, and it's just like, you would think that, like, you would get real sick real fast. And so, his throat was really hurt one day. He got your fire at school.
Speaker 3 00:34:38
So, but, so we pretty much at that point, it's like, you really can't marry on your bed. But, you know. So it doesn't get worse. Yeah. Didn't make it like a train.
Speaker 5 00:34:57
Soon to be.
Speaker 6 00:34:59
Nope, nope, nope.
Speaker 8 00:35:02
like the weather changes um so well and he's got asthma so it's mostly allergies so his doctor kind of like started him into the habit of having like steel and shadow as soon as the weather.
Speaker 3 00:35:26
changed so hard working a few years yeah yeah i think ben is probably some level of like a bit overweight you know he's actually been like well so he was one of um one of so.
Speaker 3 00:36:03
We were starting to have, because Ben's just like, he just hates me as a boy, or whatever. So I was sort of, you know, and I feel bad all the time. And he and I have had a couple conversations. You know, one day he didn't take off his shirt. I'm like, why are you not taking off your shirt? That's cool, dude. I, you know, but if you don't like it, do something.
Speaker 3 00:36:33
You know? And then, finally I got him to be talking to me more freely about it. Because I'm that way too, right? If I'm not, you know, it's like the beauty about my body is I can bulk up real quick. And most guys are like, how do you do that? And I'm like, yeah, but I get fat, too. You know, it's like I, you know, there's a reason why I starve myself until like 10 a.m. every day. You know, it's like so I can. what i want at night right you got to find what's worked for you so i was able to kind of connect.
Speaker 3 00:37:07
with him so a long story short i mean so ashland's like i'm always telling him no and it's like, ben's like very organized and so we put an app on his ipad where he can like scan his food and so he's not doing food logs and stuff like that and he's like did you know that you know it's right the other day we had like burgers and he's like why we gotta have burgers like there's a thousand calories right there and i'm like good you know and so but so i was like look man mom.
Speaker 3 00:37:38
told me make burgers i'm making burgers you know and he's like well what can i do i was like well we're having tots but you prefer fruit you want to swap those out for some strawberries like yeah can we do that you know so he's starting to like own that and again you can see that in two weeks, And he actually, because it'll say, like, how much do you want to lose a week? Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know. It gives you that range of calories. Right, right. And so, you know, he's, and he's like, well, there's two pounds a week.
Speaker 3 00:38:11
I'm like, bro, I don't. But also, it's like, oh, you can eat this much, right? Because he's like, well, because how active, very active. And he's like, look at that, Dad. I can eat, like, $2,300 a day or something like that. And I'm like, dude, I'm just telling you right now, I can't eat this much. And he put very active. And he's like, no. It says, I'm like, okay, whatever it says. And he's linked up to his watch.
Speaker 3 00:38:41
So now he's like, oh, he's like, oh, fitness, but I got to have my watch, you know. And so it'll deduct or, you know, it'll add to it. So one day he's like, he didn't work out that day. And he's like, since I only had like 200 calories left, what do I do? What can I eat? And I'm like, I tried to warn you. So now he's like super vigilant about it. So it's good. I mean, the only reason why we weighed him, it's like he came down one night, you know, and they all say they come down one night.
Speaker 3 00:39:19
So tell him to go on then.
Speaker 8 00:39:29
Lost several pounds too, because before the break, he was 105. Then we came back in January. And he was at 90. Why that big? So right now, we waited last week, it was the 96th, we were getting something big.
Speaker 8 00:40:02
And Ben is like super dense, like he's always been. 
Speaker 3 00:40:06
always has been, like when I go to, you know, like Maddie, you know, but Eric has always been, I mean, I've always gone to, you know. Like a big bone buddy. Yeah, like, he's always, like when he comes home, and I'm, I remember going down, checking in with a new doctor anyway, like, you know,
Speaker 3 00:40:46
and so I stepped on the ceiling. you know and then of course like when i give you my weight it's my weight to make it right so it's like with everything on i'm seven pounds more he's like wow that's what i went she's like well you carry it well and i'm like well i appreciate that and all but i've just always been he i think he's got my body because he can see how many he still has to eat yeah so it bends that guy right.
Speaker 3 00:41:31
ben's that kid he likes it so not only that but like he's very you know like he's the kid that comes home right good right he's got other problems no but that's good he's not you know, So he likes and he wants to know what the rules are. And so I was like, well, that has to be like, hey, what the rules are. You feel bad giving him a program, but if it works for him, then it's it.
Speaker 3 00:42:08
By the way, if you have to work, like... Just doing annual reviews. I don't know the right stuff. But I worked for a real company that gave out your, you know, annual bumps and stuff.
Speaker 8 00:42:23
And the hard part is I don't use AI whenever I have some mental blocks. What do I write. 
Speaker 3 00:42:35
I love it.
Speaker 8 00:42:40
They're giving me a hard time. I block all AI. Oh, yeah.
Speaker 3 00:42:49
Well, it's got to be a matter. You gotta understand it's a tool, you know, but most people don't. People don't. They think it's...
Speaker 8 00:43:02
Well, they don't realize what data they're giving out or putting out. Even the... There's this new Friday night. The US head or chairman, basically, in all US, keeps the top level for cyber security,
Speaker 8 00:43:35
push sensitive documents to judge public voice. If there's one job...
Speaker 3 00:43:44
Right, if anybody in this country should know about it.
Speaker 8 00:43:47
If anybody in cyber security would know better...
Speaker 3 00:43:52
dude you're the head of everybody right now look man i'm i'm not an i.t guy but i i know enough, to where i'm i'm the i.t guy's best friend how's that where it's like well you know you know yeah yeah yeah it's like you know i mean i share stuff with chat you can see but it's never like, thank you like i know where it's going uh ashley ann's in vegas again so ashley ann's in vegas again so oh i'm all right uh well this.
Speaker 3 00:44:42
fun for us trade shows yeah so. yeah yeah now it's difficult because she'll come back like I'm tired cuz I've been like holding down the board she's tired okay good I got my partner back but I don't know it's hard I've been avoiding.
Speaker 8 00:45:26
trouble for two years now this is my third year of this problem.
Speaker 6 00:45:36
they're doing fitness but every time I look up they're only just sitting there.
Speaker 5 00:45:59
What's good with you. 
Speaker 1 00:45:60
Good, thank you.
Speaker 3 00:46:20
Don't get me wrong. I always got in a lot of trouble with that, always. For the other team. But...
Speaker 8 00:46:29
Everybody's playing. Everybody went to Vegas. For tournaments. Everybody's been playing. Everybody's play rich. But...
Speaker 3 00:46:39
I think high school, most high school seasons. So, we'll be able to... We'll be able to...
Speaker 8 00:47:02
Lucas goes to training for every other son. If not for that one, he's totally just going to be playing games. Do you still do an aim. 
Speaker 3 00:47:23
Yeah, I created a new one. What are you supposed to do? You can set it. Parental. Oh, yeah. But they don't... I mean, actually, I think I do have it set. Oh, no. Because I've got another app that oversees... Their usage? No, not their usage, but their... It's a protection app, right?
Speaker 3 00:47:54
No, no, no porn, no nothing. I have blocked just all the unknowns. I always get Eric because Eric's in the airsoft now so I'm always getting his like violence and stuff like that alert he's like yeah can you unlock this.
Speaker 3 00:48:37
who's gonna get you too you too you know of course Ben gets Liam.
Speaker 3 00:49:38
They call in, I swear man, every 18 months, like, yeah, here's another one. Like, Ashley Ann, I'm not sure when she's ever skidded off. She's good.
Speaker 8 00:50:01
Skidding. 
Speaker 3 00:50:01
She's good, like, for the work stuff. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's why I'm late here, because I'm leaving. I'm like, that's not right. So I turn around, and look at it, fix it, and it's like, luckily, lately, we've been in TV, and that's where we are.
Speaker 5 00:50:38
How you doing. 
Speaker 3 00:50:40
But usually I leave at night, if not, you know, I'm out there at the house. That's cool. Yeah.
Speaker 1 00:50:55
I don't know. I, uh...
Speaker 3 00:51:43
hey you know i said this to my sister last night the wise words of kelly clarkson whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger whoever gets jimmy is uh yeah it's true has uh skyler been.
Speaker 8 00:52:12
showing up well we went there last week i think monday monday we didn't we weren't able to thank you sir.
Speaker 3 00:52:44
I just, you know, feel like, you know, if I got rolled, it's like even the, I said, well, let's make the last workout. I like them. Like, when we did the last, I said, let's make it an evaluation. And so she'd do it, and then she'd go, well, try it this way, and do it again. And it's like, that's, you know, it's nice to figure it out. Yeah. You know, I actually downloaded it myself. I haven't tried it out yet. Downloaded. So, I'm waiting for Ben's, one of Eric's games, and I'm waiting for Ben's game.
Speaker 3 00:53:34
And Ben's like, hey, can we work on my shot? I'm like, sure. So, I'm like, let's do it for me. you know, and he shoots it, and it bounces, and goes, and I'm like, be on the 18, but I wanted to make sure it gets through this, I'm like, let's do this, you videotape me taking it, and then we'll videotape you taking it, and after like 10 minutes, I had him in the top bench, in the same spot that he was bouncing in, you know, and then I was like, I'll put you up to do this with AI, you know, and so, you have to, it's a pain in the butt, so you have to export it to MP4, and upload it as a file, and they were giving tips,
Speaker 3 00:54:22
and then I was talking to my cousin this morning about it, and he's like, dude, there's baseball apps all over the country, there's gotta be a soccer app, so I went, and there's like one app that has two reviews, you know, so it must have been like just released, but I downloaded it, I haven't even opened it yet, it's called like, skill-alized, I can tell you, I haven't even opened it, but supposedly it will detect, you videotape it or record it or whatnot, it'll say, oh yeah, that's soccer, and you're obviously trying to, here, I can select the video, I bet you I can select one of the videos I see, in between games, right, right, so five minutes earlier, he was like, wait, let me check this out, let me, you know,
Speaker 3 00:55:41
he's crazy like that he's super analytical super like right he couldn't figure it out let's see, it's 11 50 and 11 56. he got it yeah so it's better than a break dancer yeah oh here this just popped up not that you care about my wife but look she's like seven um let's find that video.
Speaker 1 00:57:18
Heading, positioning, validation.
Speaker 3 00:57:24
So apparently you can take like stuff off the Trace and load it into this.
Speaker 8 00:57:31
So that's what's missing with Trace. You know how Trace is supposed to be an AI, right? Yeah. So it could.
Speaker 3 00:57:39
Dude, they make so much money. You would think that they would have thought of that.
Speaker 8 00:57:46
I don't know. Sometimes the simpler questions, they don't know. I like the, have you seen, have you guys watched Bluelock? Bluelock. It's a show or what? It's a Japanese anime or soccer. So they have like an analysis.
Speaker 8 00:58:18
and they have this like a five point analysis of speed, skills, stamina, something like that. So using video and how the players play, they're able to get player statistics of what their strengths are and all that stuff. So each player, they have this different diagrams that, oh, we need somebody for winger.
Speaker 8 00:58:49
So they go and use those player metrics to determine, because all of them are strikers. Really? That's kind of like the idea of LULAP. They wanted to get all players, everybody's a striker, everybody's a nine, and everybody can score and. that's all they have to do uh they don't worry about defense if they get scored on four they just have to score five so that's the idea so yeah they they use those um you can keep down on.
Speaker 6 00:59:28
them they come striking the ball with different parts of the foot it doesn't help it's more of.
Speaker 3 00:59:45
like general guy right oh yeah that's what it is it's more of a unlock for form no pay more for form oh to correct the form yeah.
Speaker 8 01:00:24
Nah, I'm just gonna give you a general idea. I wonder about my free subscription.
Speaker 3 01:00:31
I was hoping I could get like seven days. I'll find something else. When are you gonna make your LLM? Huh? I said when are you gonna release your new soccer training LLM. 
Speaker 8 01:00:55
Excuse me. Hey, hermano. What's up? Which one. 
Speaker 1 01:01:14
okay okay yes for both so yeah and we are going to need to renew the get the renewals for the.
Speaker 8 01:01:50
support for that e-series regardless but i i need to know how many years i'm getting the renewal support for so i know that we transferred the email to m365 so we're not pushing anything to the e-series anymore. Yes, so I want to know, I need to know, what data do we have on the E-Series?
Speaker 8 01:02:52
Okay, so all our Commvault storage goes to, the final stages still goes to Commvault, to E-Series for long-term archiving, right? So the data on tape is one year, the data on E-series is one year, they're both the same data or is it and not like two-year-old on the tape, one-year-old on E-series or they're just both one year?
Speaker 8 01:03:56
Yeah, is that something you can come up with a list like here's the data, here's our retention period, here's what we have stored on the E-series, here's what we have stored on tape? Probably not on tape because that's hard.
Speaker 1 01:04:20
okay which one which one is that the e-series so oh this is the first time i'm hearing so yeah uh.
Speaker 8 01:04:52
you may need to walk you through or create a diagram on what those stories are yeah.
Speaker 8 01:06:39
so we have we have to report the movement. but if we can't identify the data.
Speaker 8 01:08:13
over the place.
Speaker 1 01:08:42
Yeah.
Speaker 3 01:10:01
when it goes to 5 or 5 30 it's roman it's roman.
Speaker 6 01:10:23
yeah nice it's good i can go to the gym.
Speaker 3 01:11:06
Um, are you driving down, so do you open when you drop in? Uh, drop me one at the house. You need, you know, if you're going to go anyways, then it's Thursday, I can help. I'm going to go book. Yeah, no worries, no worries.
Speaker 3 01:11:36
The difficulty is that Eric's got, the other one's got practice in orange, so I end up, parking out there. Hey, buddy. Ready to go? Yeah, yeah, bring it on. Cool. I appreciate it. Of course. Uh, we'll send you to the drop-off.
Speaker 8 01:12:13
You're with me.
Speaker 1 01:12:22
Appreciate it.
Speaker 8 01:12:23
We're there. See you guys tomorrow.
Speaker 3 01:12:44
Same thing. I just looked up and I'm like, I know her. No, take care of it. I saw you. It's like, oh, I got to say hi real quick. So are you guys still RCC or no? You need to take care of this. I'm sorry. It's fine.
Speaker 9 01:13:01
I was just like, we actually. . Thank you.
Speaker 3 01:13:24
so we're just we've just gone into high school all of my kids love it, all of my kids love oh okay right even he loves it he's not even mine um but honestly.
Speaker 9 01:13:36
you know when you go you just like get like just get one experience and they've done it like one time and another time they have they didn't care for it yeah and also sometimes if you don't have a friend or like you know all the things but it sounded to me like it's very like.
Speaker 9 01:14:06
like they try to like teach it's like a lot of teaching i think that they're.
Speaker 3 01:14:11
trying to do stuff like one thing i love is there is no, There's no say or prayer in your safety, right? They won't try to save your kids.
Speaker 9 01:14:19
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 3 01:14:19
In the sense of, like, it's not watered down, right? So I do think that they try to get, like, here's what's going on. Yeah, for sure. Sometimes I think it's, like, a little bit like, you know, you know, like in how, you know me, I'm an operational guy, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 9 01:14:41
But. Yeah, well, I don't know. There's no perfect situation. Right. Like, we're, like, we're kind of, like, we just don't. Oh, do you? It just makes sense. It's true. I don't know, but we really, like, like the sermons and all. Yeah, I mean, this is.
Speaker 3 01:15:09
So he's great. Great, you know. So, I can't speak to it. Yeah, you've been there for a while. Yeah, we've been there for a while.
Speaker 9 01:15:21
No, did you, like, right after the hearing? No, so we were waiting for that.
Speaker 3 01:15:28
Oh, you were at the... Yeah, we went to Gray's in La Mirada, and then we went to Fullerton. They tried to do a... Oh, and you got right above her. Oh, was that where you were? Yeah. And I was not happy. We were trying to enjoy it. In my opinion, you know, you know Santa. Okay.
Speaker 3 01:15:59
Well, I just think that they were... I think it was just, like, they didn't realize what that... And then it's out there in some... the origin started to like leave but anyway so we're a bad mom and her parents, just like coming from high school we said like i don't want to live away from like.
Speaker 3 01:16:30
you know let's go find another and so somebody said we checked we checked out friends. i really liked chris so he was like once a month or something but i don't do fog machines um i hate to be that guy and then so anyways friends wasn't for us.
Speaker 9 01:17:14
you know i got one yeah well i think that's probably i didn't do it and not that it's like.
Speaker 3 01:17:45
yeah no yeah i mean not that it's not it's their responsibility right.
Speaker 9 01:17:59
but it's like but i'm like i did go to rock river for us too far. No, no, it's the southern part of the country.
Speaker 9 01:18:32
I don't know. Sorry.
Speaker 3 01:18:35
Well, if you guys ever want to get together and talk, I'm happy to do that. I find, like, I'll say this and then I'll just clean up here. Like, I want this thing, Grace, that's really good at it. And so it creates this, like, you know. And she's like, you want to do it, Grace? No, no. But I say, look at the people, right? Because you know the great sermons and whatnot.
Speaker 3 01:19:05
But if people aren't reflective of those sermons, something's wrong.
Speaker 9 01:19:29
All right, my turn now, I'm going to do this week's high school program. Mike, did you guys go more than once? No! It's like, Bob's a bear.
Speaker 3 01:19:58
It's probably, you know what, I hate to be that, you know. I've never been big on listening to my kids on the phone. You know, in the sense of, well, I, you know, and it could have sucked and it could have, and I, and I know that. When you guys ran, I know, I think Ben was in the program. My middle was in the program.
Speaker 9 01:20:32
Yeah, that's right. I remember there was something. It's like a once I ever eat. I, for a while, Heather.
Speaker 3 01:20:60
Yeah, I really like Heather. You know, again, she's got a personality and whatnot.
Speaker 5 01:21:05
But what's funny is, like, you know, our names are like.
Speaker 9 01:21:39
We're like trying to like, are we supposed to, yeah, we're not really going to move. Feeling of like wanting to move because like nothing fits. Yeah. But, you know, it's good to see you guys. Likewise, stick it.
Speaker 3 01:21:57
I went, well, so we used to perch together. And then on my India trip that I went to a time ago, I went with her. She was my teammate. And I know her husband. He goes over here together. Uh, yeah.
Speaker 1 01:23:56
Did that, or did Eric make one. 
Speaker 3 01:24:06
Yeah, it just started popping up on mine.
Speaker 4 01:24:14
Yeah, I have one for Grayson, but no one else.
Speaker 3 01:24:30
Julio! Long time, man. I feel like we haven't hung out in a while. How you been? We didn't know. Did you? Yeah, I am. Are the mountains better over there. 
Speaker 4 01:24:49
I mean, you don't have to put artificial stuff.
Speaker 3 01:25:00
No, I've only been there.
Speaker 4 01:25:06
I'm willing to go there. They invited, like, when they were taking, when they took me to Great Park that one time, Julia asked me if, like, we want to go, or if I want to go to Big Bear with them and, like, snowboard or ski. Oh, yeah? Oh, yeah, there's a mountain. I forgot what it was called. Um, apparently it's better than Malmo. It's a three-hour drive, though.
Speaker 4 01:25:39
And it stays there, the snow stays there until June.
Speaker 3 01:25:48
Hmm. I can tell you, there's nothing within three hours that's better. Oh, then it's probably... So there's, there's, uh, pretty much in California, there's Mammoth and there's Squaw. And Squaw is the best for, um, like, skiing.
Speaker 4 01:26:15
But not snowboarding. 
Speaker 3 01:26:17
It's not the best for snowboarding. Mammoth is better for snowboarding than Squaw.
Speaker 4 01:26:21
Because I remember...
Speaker 3 01:26:22
But Squaw is like 10 hours away.
Speaker 4 01:26:24
The first time I did snowboarding was, and before that, I always went to my dad's, like, first me, but, like, he wanted me to ski, like, the rest of us. So people go to, like, Big Bear or something, and there, there was, like, a bunch of those things for snowboarders. That's, like, impossible. They're not pipes, like those poles.
Speaker 4 01:26:55
Yeah. You know, you can't do it straight, like here, the chair.
Speaker 3 01:27:32
How do you say it in Italian? Ah, that's why. That's the question I was going to ask him. I think there was a... So do you prefer skiing or snowboarding. 
Speaker 4 01:27:47
He said, uh, depends. Definitely snowboarding, um, like fresh snow, definitely snowboarding, like jumps, but then there's stuff like, um, those little, um, you know those like paths we're using?
Speaker 4 01:28:18
Yeah. Yeah, for a few years.
Speaker 3 01:28:20
Yeah, I can't think of the name either.
Speaker 4 01:28:21
I tried, I tried with snowboarding, like, um, like it was one where the mountain was, I tried to go around one pole, I ended up cleaning the path.
Speaker 3 01:28:37
And now I'm thinking, trying to think of what those are called. All the little mounds, right, where you have to like slalom or whatnot. not small but yeah i can't think of it um yeah i mean uncle sean used to do some really like art.
Speaker 4 01:28:60
stuff basically if you guys could get yeah it would depend on what it is but you know i think we're open to the idea of it i can snowboard but i'm just not as good as king since i haven't done it in a few years oh trust me i i haven't seen for one year because i was snowboarding i was back on.
Speaker 4 01:29:34
the street i got coffee and the first um like thing or my jigger i did was paulina over there is like one of the like. It's basically, like, one of the, like, hardest, um, things. Like a black diamond? Is there, like, triple black diamonds. 
Speaker 8 01:29:59
There's double.
Speaker 4 01:30:01
Probably, like, a double then, yeah, I guess. So, I went there, and I remember it took me one hour to get done because I had my shoes paralyzed in bed. I'm teaching my brother how to do snowboarding, like, um. I thought you said you've only snowboarded once, like, three years ago. No, and this year. Yeah, so this year, my brother did sheep, but the last day, it's, and he was, yeah,
Speaker 4 01:30:41
because, because you fall a lot. My mom says if I get a van to go, Mountain's gonna buy like around your waist, and it's like a cushion, one point tall, and they're like different designs, and you can put it on your back when you're going. Did you actually go to Mountain?
Speaker 4 01:31:21
I remember. Yeah. Have you guys ever tried Big Bear? We've gone to Big Bear, but we've only, but that's not.
Speaker 6 01:31:32
So here's the problem.
Speaker 3 01:31:35
My parents used to have a cabin up in there, so we could go up there. Anytime we wanted to, we'd go snowboarding. and the snow in mammoth is 10 times better than the snow in big bear so i never had a need to go to big bear um now they don't have the cabin anymore but now it's kind of like well if i'm going to go to snow i'm going to go to map yeah you know and and it's a lot better and um because.
Speaker 4 01:32:11
big bear tends to be like super super icy yeah oh the biggest man chain in the world, it's like.
Speaker 4 01:32:45
Mountains that if you form them together, they make a circle for me and my family Well, we're gonna um next year when we go you like have to she for an entire day you start in the very You're starting for like a night get a ski lift you go down there into like Off which gets you to like another set of like ski resort, I guess.
Speaker 4 01:33:20
Then you keep repeating this but over there there's like actual like it's like tracks, It's a whole circle Hey Siri, what is Dolomites. 
Speaker 7 01:33:46
John Dominus, 1[REDACTED_PHONE], American, like, I think you should say mountain chain.
Speaker 3 01:33:57
Hey Siri, what is the mountain chain known as Dolomites. 
Speaker 7 01:34:02
The Dolomites, also known as the Pale Mountains, take their name from the carbonate rock Dolomite. They are a mountain range in northeastern Italy. This is from Wikipedia and MapCart.com.
Speaker 4 01:34:19
It's also where the Winter Olympics are being held at.
Speaker 1 01:34:41
Oh yeah. steak do we have steak what do you eat for dinner what's it called what is it what kind of pizza.
Speaker 4 01:35:19
do you speak back to them in italian or english they know us.
Speaker 3 01:35:49
oh and also is that your mom the car looked like it though. oh they have a 50 off on that well then i'm gonna go in there i know julio.
Speaker 4 01:37:07
Wait, how do you spell it? F-U-O-C-O.
Speaker 4 01:38:05
It starts with an F. I don't remember the name. Yeah, fuoco.
Speaker 6 01:38:07
Yeah, it starts with an F. U.
Speaker 3 01:38:11
Oh, what. 
Speaker 4 01:38:12
Mom said she's been there.
Speaker 10 01:38:14
I've been there. Like, I went there a long time ago.
Speaker 3 01:38:20
Mom goes everywhere without us.
Speaker 10 01:38:23
That's because I like pizzas that were very similar to what we ate when we went to Italy.
Speaker 3 01:38:30
With us, right. 
Speaker 10 01:38:32
Yeah.
Speaker 6 01:38:33
When? Before you were born. What? He's like, you guys went to Italy? When? Before you were born.
Speaker 10 01:38:41
And then I was told about that place, and I went and tried it when I was with Parks.
Speaker 3 01:38:50
Yeah, so, Julio, oh, go ahead.
Speaker 4 01:38:52
Julio said, apparently, if you're Italian, you get a 20% discount.
Speaker 10 01:39:01
Nice. So do we need to go there and order a pizza. 
Speaker 4 01:39:05
Dad said he was going to go over there and say, I know Giulio. Does this count? I know some Italians.
Speaker 3 01:39:17
But it was kind of cool, like, as he was getting out, he's like, well, maybe we can all go there with my family and your family. And I was like, yeah, let's do that.
Speaker 10 01:39:24
I know. I feel like Daniela reached out Saturday or Sunday while I was packing, and I didn't see it at the ski adventure playground, and I didn't see it until, like, 3.30 or 3 o'clock, and I was like, hey, I'm so sorry, you know.
Speaker 4 01:39:43
Wait, who asked me. 
Speaker 10 01:39:45
Daniela asked if you were available to go to the adventure playground. Who's Daniela? Giulio's mom. Oh. When. 
Speaker 3 01:39:52
Yesterday. You want to go, Ben? Yesterday? Yeah. You want to go yesterday, Ben. 
Speaker 10 01:39:59
Yeah.
Speaker 3 01:40:00
Ben wants to go yesterday.
Speaker 10 01:40:03
You wouldn't have been able to go anyways because you were still getting over your sickness. Eric tried to go, are you home now. 
Speaker 5 01:40:13
Almost.
Speaker 10 01:40:13
No. Eric tried to go running, but his shins weren't starting him. The only reason why I know that is because the doorbell rang, and so I picked it up, and then I saw, like, Eric run behind, and the, like, Amazon guy was like, no, I can't give it to you, like, did you just come off the street. 
Speaker 3 01:40:35
I saw that part, but I wasn't watching. I just saw Eric walking up to him.
Speaker 10 01:40:39
I wasn't quite sure what was going on, so I was like, excuse me, sir, and, like, oh, it gets better if you, like, watch it because it's like that wasn't what was going on, and, like, I'm pretty sure this guy had, like, a touch of the tits. Like, he was like, I can't give you this package, ma'am. There's nothing in it.
Speaker 6 01:41:00
I'm like, okay, that's okay. Why are you bringing it to my doorstep? I'm like, that's so weird.
Speaker 10 01:41:07
I'm like, oh, and he's like, so sorry. I'm like, and then like, finally I get him to go, and then Eric starts talking to me, and then he comes back.
Speaker 6 01:41:23
I didn't want to say anything over the phone. You should have been like, can you check to see if there's anything in the bag, please? What. 
Speaker 10 01:41:31
I'm like, can you send some more? He's like, yeah, you just have to send that. The bag. It's like an open, you know, like Amazon white folder. And it's open. He's like showing me that it's upside. He's like showing me it upside. I so badly wanted to be like. Like when he left, awkward, that's because it was.
Speaker 10 01:42:07
You know, I just, anyway. Yeah, you should watch that. It's probably not me watching me describing it, but like, I'm curious. Okay. Our drive. 
Speaker 5 01:42:36
Oh, yeah, it's linking. Okay. Ben, remind me to fix that later. Hey, what's this. 
Speaker 3 01:42:49
Dude, if that wasn't a perfect drill, I don't know what was. I figured you were busy. By the way, I ran into Stephanie Turner at Rolling Hills of all places, right? That's like a pickup line. Well, as funny as I actually tried to like pretend that I didn't see her for the longest time You know, I didn't get sucked into it. Nothing. I mean, there's nothing wrong with her, but you know.
Speaker 3 01:43:26
It's just awkward.
Speaker 10 01:43:27
Right, right.
Speaker 3 01:43:32
Right, But they're like she's like, yeah, I don't know, you know, they want to go to our church But the kids like I guess the kids are like, please don't ever send us to that church ever again Like they did not have a good time, you know, I'm like that's weird and you know, because like all the kids that we know. and they and they're still going to ev free right right well and she was but she was even saying.
Speaker 3 01:44:12
she's like honestly like i'm not even like that down about the program and so i was like you know. and she and she could just say it and i'm like i rarely pick stuff based on what my kids like you, know and i said i just find that maybe they don't know you know and she's like i know you know so.
Speaker 10 01:44:38
do you agree but yeah yeah. Danielle, I was like, I was like, just leave for Vegas.
Speaker 10 01:45:10
And she goes, and she goes, I'm driving. You know, it's like, I'd be any, like, association, you know. What's wrong with you. 
Speaker 3 01:45:29
What? You're waiting for me. You're waiting for mommy? To call me. To call you? Okay, I will, I will, uh, I will get her a message to call you.
Speaker 4 01:45:42
She's always going to call me.
Speaker 3 01:45:43
Okay. Well, I've got an app for you. We're going to work on your math facts. Okay? My teacher. Okay, don't worry. I will give you the math that your teacher forgot to give you. I want, I found an app today for you that I want you to start using too.
Speaker 6 01:46:06
She's like, I've never had to work on so much homework in my life.
Speaker 3 01:46:15
Um, alright. So, give me a couple minutes with Mommy, and then I will. But I gotta sign up and stuff like that in any couple minutes, okay. 
Speaker 6 01:46:29
No, it's not seven.
Speaker 3 01:46:34
So, I had to stay a little extra because we're super late and everywhere. I ended up getting vetted. So I picked up, here, here's how good I did it. I picked up Maddie at 3.40. I picked up Eric and Ben.
Speaker 3 01:47:08
I dropped off Eric and Maddie at the house and still had Ben to practice at 4.15. Right? That was called sport mode, baby. So, I don't want to tell you this, but I should tell you this because I'm that guy. I was thinking about this.
Speaker 3 01:47:44
I might have overreacted.
Speaker 6 01:47:56
I'm sorry. It's a sense...
Speaker 3 01:48:06
What? Oh, you only get one. You only get one.
Speaker 4 01:48:21
Yeah, you can do that. No, no, no, Dad. That's only for sore throats.
Speaker 3 01:48:26
Or maybe I was saying, what. 
Speaker 4 01:48:29
That's only for sore throats.
Speaker 3 01:48:31
Oh, you can't have a sore throat, Pop. Why? Because you don't have a sore throat. I know. Let's hope you get a sore throat one day. That would have been funny, though, if instead of saying I'm sorry, I said I'm satan.
Speaker 6 01:48:49
I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 01:48:52
It's a sensitive subject for me, and maybe I don't always respond like I should. No. I don't respond the way I wish I would. I felt somebody else. You don't have to respond to that. I'm telling you how I felt.
Speaker 3 01:49:26
It's an important super word. Those two things put together make for a...
Speaker 6 01:49:47
I just needed to get that out because I know I don't have... That's all. This is not a... This is just a...
Speaker 4 01:49:59
Excuse me. 
Speaker 1 01:50:05
oh you you froze and so i'm like did you freeze because daddy can i know.
Speaker 3 01:50:34
he can't hear he he can't hear i think ben had one already and that's what got maddie to have one but you know what guys okay maddie can have a lollipop lollipop not that so give me a minute guys.
Speaker 1 01:51:10
I can't hold it in. Keep talking.
Speaker 3 01:51:49
It wasn't attitude, it was Hi hun! It's your tone that says like. Yeah.
Speaker 6 01:52:03
I said, give me a minute.
Speaker 1 01:52:28
I get it.
Speaker 3 01:53:37
today um today i decided that i didn't i didn't need resolution um because i didn't think it was within reach um but i wanted but i wanted um i wanted to move on and.
Speaker 3 01:54:51
Um, while you're talking, what I heard was, I don't have time for you right now, but I'm answering because I have to.
Speaker 1 01:55:00
So, I'm just, you don't have to respond to that, but that's, yeah.
Speaker 3 01:55:28
And that's kind of why I said what I said later. It's like, you know, I wouldn't have cared about any of this if I knew she was okay. Like, if I wasn't sitting there just, like, worrying and, you know, like, I just knew she was okay. Like, I wouldn't have been so volatile.
Speaker 3 01:56:05
I, I know how, how much those, me aside, those situations weigh on you, so I can understand your, your, I, I get, I get it all.
Speaker 3 01:57:01
Um, before or after you call? And then I can work it out.
Speaker 1 01:58:35
sure you're fine you're fine i and i really was in the middle of like i had three paragraphs.
Speaker 3 01:58:52
of writing down i was trying really hard to like write it in a way like it was even like i'm sending you this email like as a point of clarity so i can get my thoughts out and so it doesn't turn into a fight you know um because i didn't want to go back and forth and it's like and honestly like it was like great we're gonna fight you know because i'm, taking this phone call and it's like she's not gonna go see my side of it you know and we didn't.
Speaker 3 01:59:25
you know so but i was i was literally like i had three paragraphs out of writing like i was responding to you, i was literally sitting in the driveway at my client's house typing that so and i had been for.
Speaker 1 01:59:42
about 20 minutes go ahead ask me something while i'm still on the phone and i told you i need a.
Speaker 3 02:00:32
minute, Do you want to try to ask me something and see if how I respond? Okay, you're not respecting me right now. It just says you're kind of unstable. It might be my connection.
Speaker 5 02:01:08
You're slowly coming back into frame.
Speaker 3 02:02:35
Wait, you're breaking up. You've had a long day together. It's just him and I. Right.
Speaker 4 02:04:13
So first you get to choose where you get lunch.
Speaker 1 02:04:29
Right. That's it.
Speaker 6 02:05:58
All right, guys, make it quick, because we just got cut off.
Speaker 5 02:06:21
Hey, anything up at all? Anything up at all. 
Speaker 1 02:06:38
Huh. 
Speaker 3 02:06:46
I think your Wi-Fi sucks.
Speaker 1 02:06:53
You there? I can see you. Yeah.
Speaker 1 02:07:52
Right. Oh, so that was the Joe that you were, uh, I didn't know who Joe was when you were, right.
Speaker 1 02:09:24
Yeah.
Speaker 1 02:12:45
Right, right, right.
Speaker 3 02:13:53
Right, and that's the thing, he's also going to be starting out too, you know, they're painting, and they expect that, so.
Speaker 3 02:15:02
Maddy's homework, but it's here I love plots on the kitchen counter, but.
Speaker 5 02:15:54
Conversation but as I think about more and more thinking that because I was talking to him I forgot.
Speaker 3 02:16:05
Uh, it depends. Fresh plaster, so it might have, like, might have, where, because it over, it was in the spa, so it would have overflowed from the spa into the pool. It might have created a, give me a minute, please.
Speaker 1 02:16:27
Go to your shower.
Speaker 9 02:16:36
Alright. No.
Speaker 3 02:16:42
I'm just trying to process through it, because I don't know. It's like, stupid me, I shouldn't have let it all go. I'm like, sure we don't need a, you know, a hose in the pool and a hose in the spa, and the guys. He's like, well, you know, the guys would be better. He's like, that's a good idea, actually. But, you know, they talk to the guys there. They do the better. And so, the guy's like, don't do this plot, dude. It's going to be a problem. And by that time, Corey's like, no, we can make it happen.
Speaker 3 02:17:15
Now, you know, so. But, I mean, and it wouldn't have been an issue if, I don't know if it's an issue, but it wouldn't have been an issue if I turned down the watch. I just like to, ultimately, I just need to go. I'm afraid, you know, it just causes anxiety. I do need to get an idea for dinner.
Speaker 3 02:18:06
Pizzas, tacos, burgers, fajitas, enchiladas. Boys, what are we having? Pizzas, tacos, burgers, fajitas, enchiladas. One vote for pizza. Tacos. One vote for tacos. Go get my other vote. Wait, so you both want tacos? Yes.
Speaker 5 02:18:34
Daddy, come on, give me this. Go get me the meat.
Speaker 1 02:18:39
Daddy, I want the meat.
Speaker 3 02:19:06
Do we have meat somewhere else is that is that how many pounds of that? Oh, but you know what I have these two.
Speaker 1 02:19:36
All right, dude.
Speaker 3 02:20:01
Yeah, I saw this guy.
Speaker 1 02:20:20
Hey Maddie.
Speaker 5 02:20:21
Hey Maddie, you've got the homework. Yeah, I still never got my Popsicle. Yeah, but what about your homework? I'll do it in a minute. So.
Speaker 7 02:20:32
Maddie, come on.
Speaker 5 02:20:34
He can't, he can't hear you. Maddie, come on. Okay, I'm hurrying. Give me some. No, because he just went outside. All right. Hey, call me. Please. Go. Okay.
Speaker 5 02:21:05
I'll have him call you. All right. Love you, too. Bye.
Speaker 6 02:21:12
Maddie, come here. Please don't close, keep my door open. What. 
Speaker 3 02:21:21
Um, mommy, mommy's ready for your phone call. Yeah, but I want you working on your homework.
Speaker 3 02:21:51
I feel like I'm having the same conversation over and over again.
Speaker 4 02:21:56
Yes, okay. No, he said, he said no.

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The conversation covers various aspects of family life, including logistics, parenting, health, technology, and sports. It emphasizes a household ethos of responsibility, care, and discernment while navigating tensions between protection and autonomy. Practical decisions around daily routines serve as touchpoints for broader ethical principles. The discussion also addresses interpersonal conflicts, communication challenges, digital safety, health management, and the use of technology for sports training and data stewardship. The family values genuine formation and thoughtful decision-making in both everyday choices and larger issues.