record_id: 309f8b3e-f83d-8121-b372-e03a4fb662ce
created_time: 2026-02-16T07:22:00.000Z
title: 02-14 Coaching: Soccer Performance and Discipline
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Speaker 1 01:20:44
Maybe you'll take the meat. But I don't have a problem with you getting a thing of jail. I don't know that.
Speaker 2 01:20:56
You have. 
Speaker 1 01:21:07
A problem with what? Right, that's what I said. I don't have a problem with jail, but. Okay, I mean, right? So I'll take your mom. Chill. Yeah, I can see Maddie's telling us that. Okay, chill. No no no. Right? You don't tell me that, but I can tell you that you can tell your brother that if you tell. I'm gonna get mad at you if you call me chill. No, I don't want to be called chill. No, nobody calls you chill. Come here. Boys, no, i don't want to be like called chill down like chill.
Speaker 1 01:21:45
What?
Speaker 1 01:22:16
Excuse me.
Speaker 1 01:22:52
That's your sink.
Speaker 1 01:23:26
Does this is something we don't. What. This is all like for nice. When does she have to wear it? She didn't want to get it more. How is this continuing? Oh, not every single thing in there takes special person, okay? How much money is that one?
Speaker 1 01:24:01
This is like her wedding ring.
Speaker 1 01:24:35
Okay. What is that? Ha ha. I'm in. Yeah, look at you. You're all crying! Yes. He looks like the biggest.
Speaker 1 01:25:28
So, if it's me, but it comes off. Wait, your other one. Wait, what I thought. Wait, what was the one that you used to wear? What was the one that you used to wear? What's it Why did you not Why did you not pick out two small ones? No, this one won't make it over my knuckles.
Speaker 3 01:26:17
Cause one day I shut the door. The car door like this and I, and it was nighttime and I heard this.
Speaker 1 01:26:25
Ting ting ting ting ting. Yeah.
Speaker 3 01:26:29
And I looked and my ring was gone. What? And so I had uh yeah cause it was so loose. On my finger. That, I didn't want to lose it, so I said alright okay hold on to this, and I got one of these things. Oh. 
Speaker 1 01:26:50
See your big daddy can have his screen time? Hmm?
Speaker 1 01:26:59
I want to go take a shower. Both of you can take a shower.
Speaker 3 01:27:02
I I want to do upstairs. Then, I'm taking a shower right here.
Speaker 1 01:27:08
Can't can't bring my iPad because Ben's taking a shower right now. Hm? Can can't bring my iPad while Ben's taking a shower right now? Shh! I can't, he is!
Speaker 3 01:27:18
Shh! Hey listen, let's talk okay? First and foremost,
Speaker 1 01:27:25
Can you tell me how you feel after playing today? You got kind of frustrated with me. You could've went to the side. Do you think like. 
Speaker 1 01:28:03
You can be mad at your parents. You can be even more mad.
Speaker 2 01:28:15
Okay, you Know.
Speaker 1 01:28:34
What I think, oh man, I might hit Matt in the face. Let's try it anyways. I got caught up in the moment, just like you kind of do sometimes, right? As soon as it touched my foot, I was like "oh shh," which you saw on my face right away because I went straight.
Speaker 1 01:29:18
I had it. I've been doing it like four years.
Speaker 1 01:29:52
Those players out there aren't good, but you know what they are good at? They do everything he asks them to every time. That's what he wants. That's why Caden went up. Okay, you still this whole year I am not attacking you. We're just talking about the truth. You still lunge at the ball.
Speaker 1 01:30:22
Keep saying, "don't do it." Keep doing it. And that worked in flight three. You're going to jump from flight three, pass flight two, pass flight one to EA. That get them all scored on the field because you did that right now. It happened to Caden too. I agree, but guess what? Caden's got a smile too. What am I supposed to take Caden's one? You're supposed to take somebody's spot. We don't care. It's not up to you to protect Katie's smile. It's up to you to play the best and coach, and trust coach. But coach listen, coach doesn't want you to play super super well, huh? That's okay. Listen, all coach wants is for you to do what he says. That thing and so when he says maybe he's mad enough about it and. 
Speaker 1 01:31:21
Honestly, dude, It frustrates me big time when you lunge, because I told you over and over and over again, "you cannot do it." I need your main attention on this one. You have not made it important enough to work on the fix. To me, that's a slap in the face. And a coach is a slap in the face when we said, "don't do it," don't do it," don't do it." Still think you can do it. And just because you get back and you stop the play, honestly, I don't care how pissed. Probably better than that. And what I'm saying is, if you want to play at the low levels, they'll let you get away with a lot of stuff. That's fine. They don't care because it's low level. You were better than everybody. So of course, you're going to make mistakes and coaches are going to yeah, actually still better than them.
Speaker 1 01:32:25
Both of your brothers. Only your brother listens. And don't listen to me, they don't do well. Okay? If you listen to them, forget about everything else, you notice even in the games you play. It's like Mr Mike came, who's the better player? You or Mr Mike?
Speaker 1 01:32:60
It was his skills that was his problem. It was his mind. And what I am trying to get you guys to do is train your mind better. You guys aren't listening. When you listen to me, it'll be better. You gotta trust me now, even when it seems wrong, you gotta trust me. I am telling you this: two things I ask for right now. 
Speaker 1 01:33:30
No knees, let it bounce. Right? And even the no outside kicks. Right? You did. But look how many times I've asked you no knees in this whole thing, right? So what is the lesson here?
Speaker 1 01:33:60
So. Now you're going to focus more on. What is it that coach wants me to do, instead of letting myself get sucked into this one. And that's going to make you a smarter player, okay? All right. I have my shirt and my. Yeah. Then you can get out of the shower in like two minutes.
Speaker 3 01:34:22
So? Huh? So come back, so I'll show them when I come back. No, I want you to just go get ready to take a shower. And as soon as Ben comes out, you jump in.

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